Dear future husband,
Whoever you are…I am starting to grow impatient. I can’t wait to meet you. I hope you think about me as much as I think about you. I hope your heart skips a beat when you think about our future together, I know that mine does.
I have been praying for you and maybe someday, we can pray together too. I want us to put God first in our relationship, always.
I have a problem and that is that I tend to doubt myself a lot. I want you to be there to comfort me when I’m feeling this way.
I can’t wait to hold your hand, wake up beside you, and eat a bowl of Coco Puffs with you. I can’t wait to cuddle with you on the couch, eat popcorn, and watch stupid comedies. I can’t wait to see the look on your face when you see me for the first time, wearing a beautiful wedding dress. I can’t wait to see the look on your face when you hold our child for the first time.
That’s another thing I must mention, family. By putting God first, I want us to put family second.
I’m really scared to have babies. You see, I’m afraid of the pain. I’m afraid that I’ll be a terrible mother and that I’ll fail our children. I really need your help because I can’t do it alone. I’m going to need you hold my hand when I’m giving birth. I’m going to need you to love our children as much as I do.
I hope you can grow to understand my obsessions. I hope that you can grow to understand that I may never be emotionally stable. I want us to always keep a big jar of pickles in the fridge. I want us to not keep secrets and I want us to be on the same page. I don’t want to fight and I know that someday, there may be a few. I want us to get through those hard times because I know that every marriage can be a struggle at times.
I don’t want you do give up on us. Please. Please. Please. Staying together forever is important to me.
I take love very seriously and I don’t want us to rush into our lives. I want to enjoy our time together before we take a step and decide to have a family. I want us to be stable, both financially and emotionally. I want to take things slow and when the time comes, I want you to be supportive.
I really hope that you are one to make me laugh because I love laughing. I hope that you are one to kiss me goodnight and hold me when I cry. I hope that you are one who listens and cares about what I have to say.
Lastly, I love you. I have loved you since the day I was born and I don’t even know you yet. Well, at least I don’t think I know you yet. Maybe we have crossed paths and just don’t know it yet. So, whoever you are and wherever you are in this world, I hope you have loved me your whole life too. My love, I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you…whenever that is.
Your Future Wife